1. Stay around positive people - People who are positive make their environment positive too. for eg. you are working on a project and asks a suggestion from a positive person, he will give you right and truthful suggestions, motivates you and boost your morale by asking you to keep going, however a negative person, if asked, a same question will put your idea or goal to question. How? When? Why? its not a good thing to start with!!!
2. Avoid Negators - Avoiding somebody may not be easy especially when he/she is a colleague, batchmate or a sibling/cousin at home. But here I am sharing a trick with you all, you can make negative person around you an example/case study of things people should not do or say. Listen to him/her but treat that as your learning as to 'what a positive person should not do'. Believe me, you can write a whole set of thesis.
3. Make new friends - Making friends of varied skills and jobs (other than your own skill) will keep you updated of new areas of work and new opportunities and this way you will have elaborated thinking and that thought will not let you think about anything negative. New people, new skills, new opportunities, new ways will make you a better and positive person.
4. Exercise your Hobby - We often forget that we have some hobbies too, dealing with daily chores of life. Whenever you are feeling low or had a negative conversation with one of your negator, its time to quickly go back and wash your mind. Sing, dance, play, walk, run or play, do anything which you love doing and negative thoughts and people will slowly go away from your mind. It works!
5. Be your favorite - Wear your favorite dress, make your favorite dish, hear your favorite song and go out to your favorite restaurant or visit your friend. This will give you a happy feeling and you will be positive for many days to come.
Follow these steps and let me know if you noticed change in yourself.
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